Processing

How do you process through thing? I need to get them out into thoughts, either spoken or written. As I form the thoughts I usually come up with answers to the issues and perplexities that bother me.

Kyle on the other hand, like most men, internalizes and needs to ‘do’ something. Some men will go and rebuild an engine, clean out the garage, or build something in the wood shop, for my husband he needs to cook.

This past Saturday Kyle needed to work through a few things so into the kitchen he went. He made two large pans of lasagna, a double batch of cream cheese brownies, a cake and a cheese cake. At the end of two hours he had everything done, blessed four different families and had resolved the issues he was dealing with.

When he gets like this I just stay out of the way and keep the pile of dishes and pans stacked in the sink from falling over.

Here he is in mid-process.